{"id":1668,"date":"2023-09-23T14:47:32","date_gmt":"2023-09-23T14:47:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/?p=1668"},"modified":"2024-04-12T23:13:35","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T23:13:35","slug":"annelik-ve-babalik-nasil-olmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/annelik-ve-babalik-nasil-olmalidir\/","title":{"rendered":"ANNEL\u0130K VE BABALIK NASIL OLMALIDIR?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130ncil\u2019e G\u00f6re Annelik ve Babal\u0131k<\/h3>\n

\u0130ncil\u2019e g\u00f6re, annelerin ve babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fctmeleri laz\u0131m? Bir\u00e7ok ayet bu konudan bahsetse de bir tanesi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde \u00f6zetliyor: \u201cEy babalar, siz de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6fkesini uyand\u0131rmay\u0131n. Onlar\u0131 Rab\u2019bin terbiye ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcyle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcn.<\/em>\u201d (Efesliler 6:4). Bu ayetten ne \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz?<\/p>\n

\u00d6ncelikle, bu ayet kime hitap ediyor? Babalara. Tabii anneler de bu buyru\u011fa uymal\u0131. Fakat bu ayet babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctme g\u00f6revi oldu\u011funu belirtiyor. \u0130nsanlar bug\u00fcnlerde bu g\u00f6rev bazen sadece annelerinmi\u015f gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorlar. Ama hem annelerin hem de babalar\u0131n farkl\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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Anneli ve Babal\u0131k Tanr\u0131’n\u0131n bir erkek ve kad\u0131na verdi\u011fi en \u00f6nemli arma\u011fand\u0131r<\/p><\/div>\n

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\u00d6fkesini Uyand\u0131rmay\u0131n!<\/h3>\n

Ayetin ilk buyru\u011fu \u015fudur: \u201c\u2026\u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n \u00f6fkesini uyand\u0131rmay\u0131n<\/em>\u201d. Babalar ve anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na s\u0131k s\u0131k \u00f6fkeleniyor. Ama \u0130ncil\u2019e g\u00f6re bu i\u015fe yaramaz. \u0130ncil diyor ki, \u201c\u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6fkesi Tanr\u0131\u2019n\u0131n istedi\u011fi do\u011frulu\u011fu sa\u011flamaz.<\/em>\u201d (Yakup 1:20). Belki annesi veya babas\u0131 \u00f6fkelendikten sonra, \u00e7ocuk korkudan susuyordur. Ama kalbinde ne oluyor? Kendi \u00f6fkesi uyan\u0131yor. \u00d6fke bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun y\u00fcre\u011fini Tanr\u0131\u2019ya ve Tanr\u0131\u2019n\u0131n istedi\u011fi do\u011frulu\u011fa y\u00f6neltmiyor.<\/p>\n

Babalar\u0131n ve annelerin \u00e7ok sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmalar\u0131 laz\u0131m. Tabii \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fctmek \u00e7ok zor bir i\u015f ve \u00f6fkeden ka\u00e7\u0131nmak zor olabilir. Ama \u0130ncil diyor ki, \u201cSevgi sab\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r\u2026kolay kolay \u00f6fkelenmez\u2026<\/em>\u201d (1. Korintliler 13:4-5). En iyi sab\u0131r \u00f6rne\u011fi Tanr\u0131\u2019d\u0131r. Kutsal Kitap defalarca \u015funu diyor: \u201cRAB l\u00fctufk\u00e2r ve sevecendir, tez \u00f6fkelenmez, sevgisi engindir.<\/em>\u201d (Mezmurlar 145:8). Tanr\u0131 bizim g\u00f6ksel Babam\u0131zd\u0131r. O bizi seviyor ve bize kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ok sab\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Rab\u2019bin Terbiyesiyle ve \u00d6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcyle B\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcn<\/h3>\n

Babalar ve anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6fkelenmek yerine onlara y\u00fcz verip onlar\u0131 \u015f\u0131martmal\u0131 m\u0131? Hay\u0131r. Ayetin ikinci buyru\u011fu \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: \u201cOnlar\u0131 Rab\u2019bin terbiye ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcyle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcn\u201d.\u00a0<\/em>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 terbiye etmek, onlara \u00f6fkelenmekle ayn\u0131 \u015fey de\u011fildir. \u00d6fkenin aksine, terbiye do\u011frulu\u011fu sa\u011flar. \u201cTerbiye edilmek ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta hi\u00e7 tatl\u0131 gelmez, ac\u0131 gelir.<\/em> Ne var ki, b\u00f6yle e\u011fitilenler i\u00e7in bu sonradan esenlik veren do\u011frulu\u011fu \u00fcretir.\u201d (\u0130braniler 12:11) Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla babalar\u0131n ve annelerin \u00f6fkelenmeden, sevgiyle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 terbiye etmeleri laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n

Sadece terbiyeyle de\u011fil, babalar\u0131n ve annelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, Rab\u2019bin \u00f6\u011f\u00fcd\u00fcyle b\u00fcy\u00fctmeleri gerek. Tanr\u0131 yasay\u0131 \u0130srail halk\u0131na verdikten sonra \u015f\u00f6yle dedi: \u201cS\u00f6zlerimi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za \u00f6\u011fretin. Evinizde otururken, yolda y\u00fcr\u00fcrken, yatarken, kalkarken onlardan s\u00f6z edin<\/em>.\u201d (Yasa\u2019n\u0131n Tekrar\u0131 11:19). Babalar ve anneler Tanr\u0131\u2019n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6\u011fretmeliler. Kutsal Kitap diyor ki, \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fu tutmas\u0131 gereken yola g\u00f6re yeti\u015ftir, ya\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda o yoldan ayr\u0131lmaz.<\/em>\u201d (S\u00fcleyman\u2019\u0131n \u00d6zdeyi\u015fleri 22:6).<\/p>\n

Bunu G\u00f6ksel Babam\u0131zdan \u00f6\u011frenebiliriz. O bizi terbiye ediyor ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct veriyor. \u201cBabalar\u0131m\u0131z bizi k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre i\u00e7in, uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri gibi terbiye ettiler. Ama Tanr\u0131, kutsall\u0131\u011f\u0131na ortak olal\u0131m diye bizi kendi yarar\u0131m\u0131za terbiye ediyor.\u201d<\/em> (\u0130braniler 12:10) Tanr\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 olarak bizi seviyor. O bizi \u00f6fkelenmeden, sab\u0131rla terbiye ediyor ve bize \u00f6\u011fretiyor (Yuhanna 6:45, 1. Selanikliler 4:9). Biz de O\u2019nun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi yapal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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