{"id":1778,"date":"2023-09-23T21:22:26","date_gmt":"2023-09-23T21:22:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/?p=1778"},"modified":"2024-04-12T13:44:42","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T13:44:42","slug":"kadinin-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/kadinin-onemi\/","title":{"rendered":"KADININ \u00d6NEM\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

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\u0130nsan haklar\u0131n\u0131n geni\u015f \u00e7apta \u00e7i\u011fnendi\u011fi \u015fimdiki d\u00f6nemin g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc.. \u00c7alkant\u0131lar zincirinin baklalar\u0131 aras\u0131nda kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ilelerini \u00f6rtbas edicilik, \u00e7atla\u011f\u0131 bal\u00e7\u0131kla s\u0131vamakt\u0131r. Kad\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ye\u011f g\u00f6r\u00fclen uygulamalar d\u00f6l yata\u011f\u0131ndan ba\u015fl\u0131yor: Baz\u0131 \u00fclkelerde do\u011facak \u00e7ocu\u011fun k\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenildi\u011finde d\u00f6l\u00fct hemen kaz\u0131l\u0131yor. Baz\u0131 b\u00f6lgelerde k\u0131z do\u011far do\u011fmaz bo\u011fuluyor. Bir\u00e7ok yerde k\u0131zlar t\u00fcyler \u00fcrpertici seks pazar\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131l\u0131yor. Belirli ku\u015faklarda k\u0131zlar\u0131n s\u00fcnneti resmen onaylan\u0131yor. \u00c7okevlilik giderek yay\u0131l\u0131yor. T\u00e2lak-\u0131-selase ra\u011fbet buluyor. A\u011f\u0131r i\u015flerde \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan kad\u0131nlar\u0131n derdi ar\u015f-\u0131-\u00e2l\u00e2ya y\u00fckseliyor. Ve bunal\u0131m\u0131n baklalar\u0131 durmak bilmeden giderek \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Tanr\u0131 d\u00fczeninde kad\u0131n erkekle tam e\u015fitliktedir; ya\u015fam arkada\u015f\u0131, aile birli\u011finin kurucusu.. RAB Tanr\u0131, \u201cAdam\u0131n tek ba\u015f\u0131na olmas\u0131 iyi de\u011fildir, kendisine yara\u015fan bir yard\u0131mc\u0131 yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d <\/em>dedi\u2026 \u201cRAB Tanr\u0131 adam\u0131n \u00fczerine derin uyku getirdi ve o uyudu. Onun kaburga kemiklerinden birini ald\u0131, yerini etle kaplad\u0131. RAB Tanr\u0131 adamdan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 kaburga kemi\u011finden bir kad\u0131n yapt\u0131, onu adama getirdi. Adam, \u2018\u015eimdi bu kemiklerimden kemik, etimden ettir\u2019 dedi. \u2018Buna kad\u0131n denilecek; \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc o insandan al\u0131nd\u0131.\u2019 Bu nedenle insan anas\u0131n\u0131 babas\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakacak, kar\u0131s\u0131na yap\u0131\u015facak ve tek beden olacaklar\u201d (Yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f 2:18,21-24).<\/em><\/p>\n

Tanr\u0131 S\u00f6z\u00fc\u2019nde, yarat\u0131k insan\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olan kad\u0131na ili\u015fkin bu ilgin\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131klaman\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, her iki varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n da g\u00fcnahl\u0131 olmas\u0131 nedeniyle Tanr\u0131 kayras\u0131na gereksinimli\u011fi vurgulan\u0131r. Yaratan\u2019\u0131n kad\u0131n\u0131 ya da erke\u011fi yeni ya\u015fam a\u015famas\u0131na getirmesinden sonra \u015fu ger\u00e7ek belirtilir: \u201cYahudi ile uluslar, k\u00f6le ile \u00f6zg\u00fcr, erkek ile kad\u0131n aras\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir ayr\u0131m yoktur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hepiniz de Mesih \u0130sa ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda birsiniz. E\u011fer Mesih\u2019in iseniz, bu durumda \u0130brahim\u2019in soyusunuz. Vaat uyar\u0131nca miras\u00e7\u0131lars\u0131n\u0131z\u201d (Galatyal\u0131lar 2:28,29).<\/em> Tanr\u0131 Babam\u0131z, \u0130brahim iman \u00f6rne\u011fimiz, Mesih inanl\u0131lar\u0131 miras orta\u011f\u0131.. \u0130nsanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n can yak\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7alkant\u0131lar\u0131 zincirinde erke\u011fin kad\u0131na tahakk\u00fcm\u00fc melekleri a\u011flatan tanr\u0131saymazl\u0131k.<\/p>\n

Yarat\u0131klar\u0131 aras\u0131nda hi\u00e7bir ayr\u0131m yapmayan Tanr\u0131 her t\u00fcr haks\u0131z adaletsiz uygulamay\u0131 k\u0131nar. Kutsal S\u00f6z\u2019de kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemini belirten a\u00e7\u0131klamalar Tanr\u0131\u2019ya \u015f\u00fckran duygusuyla an\u0131msat\u0131lmal\u0131: \u201cKendine e\u015f bulan iyilik bulur, RABB\u0130N onay\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r\u2026 Cana yak\u0131n kad\u0131n e\u015fine onur getirir\u2026 Erdemli kad\u0131n kocas\u0131n\u0131n tac\u0131d\u0131r; ama utan\u00e7 bilmeyen kad\u0131n onun kemi\u011finde kanser gibidir\u2026 Bilgeli kad\u0131n evini kurar, ama ak\u0131ls\u0131z kad\u0131n onu elleriyle y\u0131kar\u2026 Erdemli kad\u0131n\u0131 kim bulabilir? Onun de\u011feri yakutlardan \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr. A\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 bilgelikle a\u00e7ar, sevecenlik \u00f6\u011freti\u015fi a\u011fz\u0131ndad\u0131r\u2026 \u00c7ekicilik aldat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r, g\u00fczellik bo\u015ftur; ama bilgeli kad\u0131nd\u0131r \u00f6v\u00fclen\u201d (S\u00fcleyman\u2019\u0131n \u00d6zdeyi\u015fleri 18:22; 11:16; 12:4; 14:1; 31:10,26,30).<\/em><\/p>\n

Yaratan kad\u0131ns\u0131z erke\u011fin eksik bir yarat\u0131k olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek onun yan\u0131na en de\u011ferli arkada\u015f\u0131 koydu. Kad\u0131n benimsensin, sevsin, sevilsin, korusun, korunsun, Tanr\u0131\u2019ya insana be\u011fenilir \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirsin diye. Tanr\u0131sal d\u00fczende \u00f6nemli yeri olan kad\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamak, pataklamak, korkutarak cinsel ili\u015fkiye zorlamak, onu bilgisiz b\u0131rakmak, tecrit etmek do\u011frudan do\u011fruya Yaratan\u2019\u0131n yap\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 bozmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Akl\u0131 genellikle cinsel konulara y\u00f6nelik g\u00fcnahl\u0131 nice erke\u011fin ilgisi, kad\u0131n\u0131 kendine zevk getiren bir yarat\u0131k saymakt\u0131r. \u00d6te yandan, bir kad\u0131n\u0131n erdemli ya\u015fam\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p cinsel zevk aleti olmaya e\u011filimi ya da bu yolda istismar\u0131 h\u00fcz\u00fcn ve ac\u0131l\u0131k \u00e7alkant\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Toplumu sarsan bunal\u0131mlar aras\u0131n-da kad\u0131n\u0131n ezilmesi, \u00f6z haklardan yoksun b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 \u00f6nde gelen adaletsizliklerdendir. Kutsal Kitap\u2019ta Tanr\u0131 esiniyle \u015f\u00f6yle yaz\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cKad\u0131n erke\u011fin y\u00fcceli\u011fidir\u2026 Kald\u0131 ki, Rab ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131n erkekten, erkek de kad\u0131ndan ayr\u0131 s\u0131rada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclemez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n erkekten olu\u015ftu\u011fu gibi, erkek de kad\u0131ndan do\u011far. Ama her \u015fey Tanr\u0131\u2019dan olu\u015fur\u201d (I Korintoslular 11:7,11,12).<\/em><\/p>\n

Tarih boyunca kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ekmekte oldu\u011fu y\u00fcrek burkucu \u00e7ilelerden biri, erke\u011fin keyfine g\u00f6re kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tal\u00e2k-\u0131-selaseye, yani bo\u015fanmaya itmesidir. Bin bir \u00e7e\u015fit d\u00fczenle, hi\u00e7 ara vermeden \u0130sa Mesih\u2019i s\u0131namay\u0131 al\u0131\u015fk\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015f din adamlar\u0131, bo\u015fanmayla ilgili bir soru do\u011frulttu \u0130sa\u2019ya. \u0130sa kendilerini taa yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc: \u201cBa\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta Yaratan onlar\u0131 erkek ve di\u015fi olarak yaratt\u0131 diye hi\u00e7 okumad\u0131n\u0131z m\u0131 siz? Bu nedenle, insan babay\u0131 ve anneyi b\u0131rak\u0131p kar\u0131s\u0131na ba\u011flanacak, ikisi bir tek beden olacak.\u201d <\/em>Bu an\u0131msatmayla Isa, \u201cTanr\u0131\u2019n\u0131n birle\u015ftirdi\u011fini insan ay\u0131rmas\u0131n\u201d<\/em> dedi.<\/p>\n

Ama Ferisiler, Musa\u2019n\u0131n yasas\u0131nda erke\u011fin kad\u0131na bo\u015fanma ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 verip onu sal\u0131vermeye izinli oldu\u011funa uzatt\u0131 konuyu. Y\u00fcrekleri iyice bilen \u0130sa bunun gerisindeki nedeni kesin dille ayd\u0131nlatt\u0131: \u201cSiz kat\u0131 y\u00fcrekli oldu\u011funuz i\u00e7in Musa e\u015flerinizi bo\u015faman\u0131za izin verdi. Ne var ki, ba\u015flang\u0131\u00e7ta durum bu de\u011fildi. Size diyorum ki, her kim cinsel uygunsuzluk olmadan kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 bo\u015fay\u0131p ba\u015fkas\u0131yla evlenirse cinsel yolsuzluk i\u015fler\u201d (Matta 19:3-9). <\/em>Rab \u0130sa, her bo\u015fanman\u0131n gerisinde kat\u0131 y\u00fcreklilik bulundu\u011funu vurgular.<\/p>\n

D\u00fczenli ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 aile Kutsal Kitap\u2019\u0131n ana konular\u0131ndand\u0131r: \u201cKad\u0131nlar, Rab ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na yara\u015f\u0131r tutumla kocalar\u0131n\u0131za ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olun. Kocalar, kar\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sevin ve onlara kar\u015f\u0131 sert davranmay\u0131n\u201d (Koloseliler 3:18,19). \u201cGen\u00e7 kad\u0131nlara kocalar\u0131n\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 seven olmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretsinler. A\u011f\u0131rba\u015fl\u0131, su\u00e7suz, evcimen, iyi huylu, kocalar\u0131na ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kad\u0131n olsunlar\u2026 Bunun gibi, gen\u00e7 erkekleri de isteklerine egemen olabilmeyi \u00f6\u011f\u00fctle\u201d (Titos 2:4-6). \u201cHerkes evlili\u011fe sayg\u0131yla baks\u0131n, evlilik yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da lekesiz tutsun. Rasgele cinsel ili\u015fkiye ve evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 cinsel ba\u011flant\u0131ya girenleri Tanr\u0131 yarg\u0131layacakt\u0131r\u201d (\u0130braniler 13:4). <\/em>Toplumun sevincini g\u00fcvenli\u011fini \u00f6n s\u0131rada d\u00fczenli aile olu\u015fturur. Yuvay\u0131 yapan di\u015fi ku\u015ftur deyimi bir\u00e7ok y\u00f6nden ger\u00e7ektir. Bu nedenle, di\u015fi varl\u0131\u011fa yara\u015fan de\u011feri sa\u011flayan ve onu savunan \u0130sa Mesih\u2019in s\u00f6zleri iyice anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131p de\u011ferlendirilince sa\u011flam konut sa\u011flam temele oturmu\u015f olur. Kurtar\u0131c\u0131 \u0130sa\u2019d\u0131r ger\u00e7ek aileyi kuran, koruyan, sars\u0131lmaz temel \u00fcst\u00fcnde tutan.<\/p>\n

Kaynak\u00e7a: Thomas Cosmades, www.hristiyanlik.org<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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