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Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc her y\u0131l t\u00fcm d\u00fcnyada kutlanan pop\u00fcler bir g\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Her y\u0131l sevgililer, e\u015fler birbirlerine hediyeler al\u0131rlar. Jestler yaparak birbirlerine olan sevgilerini bir kez daha ifade ederler. Sevgi, a\u015fk, sadakat, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k gibi kavramlar\u0131 i\u00e7erdi\u011finden evrensel bir g\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u0130nsan\u0131n en temel duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k geldi\u011fi i\u00e7in de neredeyse herkesin \u00e7ok\u00e7a benimsedi\u011fi bir kavramd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Tabi bir yandan da bu g\u00fcn\u00fcn ticari bir boyutu vard\u0131r. T\u00fcm d\u00fcnyada markalar\u0131n sat\u0131\u015flar\u0131 artar. Sevgilisine, e\u015fine hediye almak isteyen insanlar bu markalar\u0131n reklam ak\u0131n\u0131na u\u011frarlar. Sevgililer g\u00fcn\u00fc yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bir nevi hediye se\u00e7me tela\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7ine girerler. Asl\u0131nda hediyenin kendisini sanki kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiden \u00e7ok daha merkezi, bir \u00f6nemli bir konuma koymaya ba\u015flar\u0131z: \u201cAcaba hediyemi be\u011fenecek mi?\u201d Peki sevgililer g\u00fcn\u00fc ger\u00e7ekten de bu tela\u015f \u00fczerine mi kuruludur? Sevgililer g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn tarih\u00e7esi ve ger\u00e7ek anlam\u0131 nedir?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
![\"sevgililer](\"https:\/\/www.kutsalkitap.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sevgililer-gunu.jpg\")
<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\nSevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc her y\u0131l hediyelerle an\u0131lan bir g\u00fcnd\u00fcr<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
Asl\u0131nda bu g\u00fcn, bat\u0131 d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda \u201cValentine\u2019s Day\u201d olarak ge\u00e7er. \u201cValentine\u201d asl\u0131nda bir ki\u015fidir ve Aziz Valentin diye ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n
Aziz Valentin, ayn\u0131 zamanda doktor olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir Katolik rahipti. MS \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc y\u00fczy\u0131lda \u0130talya\u2019da ya\u015fad\u0131 ve Roma\u2019da bir rahip olarak g\u00f6rev yapt\u0131.<\/p>\n
Valentin, birbirlerine a\u015f\u0131k olan ama \u0130mparator 2. Klaudius taraf\u0131ndan yasak oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in evlenemeyen \u00e7iftleri gizlice evlendirmesiyle \u00fcnlenmi\u015ftir. \u0130mparator Klaudius, ordusu i\u00e7in yeni asker al\u0131rken, evlili\u011fin bu askerler i\u00e7in engel olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in evlilik yasa\u011f\u0131 koymu\u015ftu. Ayr\u0131ca mevcut askerlerin de evlenmesini engellemek istedi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar i\u00e7in de evlili\u011fin engel te\u015fkil edece\u011fini, i\u015flerinden uzakla\u015ft\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordu.<\/p>\n
\u0130mparator Klaudius, Valentin\u2019in \u00e7iftleri evlendirdi\u011fini ke\u015ffetti\u011finde, Valentin\u2019i hapse g\u00f6nderdi. Valentin, hapishanede ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi zaman\u0131, \u0130sa Mesih\u2019in can\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7arm\u0131hta ba\u015fkalar\u0131 i\u00e7in verdi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyerek, sevgiyle insanlara ula\u015fmaya devam etmek i\u00e7in kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Valentin\u2019in bilgeli\u011finden \u00e7ok etkilenen gardiyan Asterius ile arkada\u015f oldu. Valentin\u2019den k\u0131z\u0131 Julia\u2019ya derslerinde yard\u0131m etmesini istedi. Julia k\u00f6rd\u00fc ve birisinin ona \u00f6\u011frenmesi i\u00e7in materyal okumas\u0131 gerekiyordu. Valentin, hapishanede onu ziyarete geldi\u011finde onunla yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarla Julia ile arkada\u015f oldu.<\/p>\n
\u0130mparator Claudius da Valentin\u2019i sevmeye geldi. Valentine\u2019yi affetmeyi teklif etti ve Valentin Hristiyan inanc\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7ip Roma tanr\u0131lar\u0131na ibadet etmeyi kabul ederse onu serbest b\u0131rakacakt\u0131. Valentin sadece inanc\u0131n\u0131 b\u0131rakmay\u0131 reddetmekle kalmad\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda \u0130mparator Klaudius\u2019u \u0130sa Mesih\u2019e iman te\u015fvik etti. Valentin\u2019in bu sadakati onun hayat\u0131na mal oldu. \u0130mparator Klaudius, Valentin\u2019in bu karar\u0131na \u00e7ok k\u0131zd\u0131 ve Valentin\u2019i \u00f6l\u00fcme mahkum etti.<\/p>\n
\u00d6ld\u00fcr\u00fclmeden \u00f6nce Valentin, Julia\u2019y\u0131 \u0130sa\u2019ya yak\u0131n kalmaya te\u015fvik etmek ve arkada\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ona te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek i\u00e7in son bir not yazd\u0131. \u201cValentin\u2019den\u201d diye notunu imzalad\u0131. Bu not, insanlara Valentin\u2019in \u015fehit edildi\u011fi g\u00fcn olarak kutlanan 14 \u015eubat Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019nde insanlara kendi sevgi dolu mesajlar\u0131n\u0131 yazmaya ba\u015flama konusunda ilham verdi.<\/p>\n
Valentine 14 \u015eubat 270\u2019te d\u00f6vd\u00fcler, ta\u015flad\u0131lar ve kafas\u0131n\u0131 keserek \u00f6ld\u00fcrd\u00fcler. Bir\u00e7ok gen\u00e7 \u00e7ifte sevgi dolu hizmetini hat\u0131rlayan insanlar onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 ve hizmetini kutlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Tanr\u0131\u2019n\u0131n insanlara mucizevi yollarla yard\u0131m etmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir aziz haline geldi. MS. 496\u2019da Papa Gelasius 14 \u015eubat\u2019\u0131 Sevgililer G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc resmi bayram g\u00fcn\u00fc olarak belirledi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\nD\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6ncesi \u00e7iftleri vaftiz eden Aziz Valentin<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sevgililer g\u00fcn\u00fc dedi\u011fimizde hediyeler, s\u00fcrprizler, romantik ak\u015fam yemekleriyle bir tela\u015f\u0131n i\u00e7erisine girdi\u011fimiz bir d\u00f6nemi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Tabi ki bunlar \u00e7ok anlaml\u0131 ve tatl\u0131 tela\u015flard\u0131r. Kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakine onu ne kadar sevdi\u011fimizi en iyi \u015fekilde ifade etmek isteriz. Bir yandan da i\u00e7erisinde bulundu\u011fumuz bu \u00e7a\u011fda t\u00fcketim toplumu haline gelmemizden kaynaklanan baz\u0131 zorluklar da var. Sanki kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiyi sevme derecemiz ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hediyenin, s\u00fcrprizin, ak\u015fam yeme\u011finin pahal\u0131 olmas\u0131yla do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi bir alg\u0131 da olu\u015fuyor haliyle.<\/p>\n
Ancak sevgi bunlardan \u00e7ok daha derin ve asl\u0131nda materyal olarak paha bi\u00e7ece\u011finiz \u015fekilde \u00f6l\u00e7ebilece\u011fimiz bir kavram de\u011fildir. Bir ki\u015finin kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine sunabilece\u011fi en de\u011ferli hediye kendisidir, sevgisidir, sadakatidir, samimiyetidir. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi neye sahip olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla de\u011fil sadece sevgiyle neye sahip oldu\u011fumuzla ilgilidir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131da \u0130ncil\u2019den bir ger\u00e7ek sevgi tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilirsiniz:<\/p>\n
\u0130nsanlar\u0131n ve meleklerin diliyle konu\u015fsam, ama sevgim olmasa, ses \u00e7\u0131karan bak\u0131rdan ya da \u00e7\u0131nlayan zilden fark\u0131m kalmaz. Peygamberlikte bulunabilsem, b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u0131rlar\u0131 bilsem, her bilgiye sahip olsam, da\u011flar\u0131 yerinden oynatacak kadar b\u00fcy\u00fck iman\u0131m olsa, ama sevgim olmasa, bir hi\u00e7im. Var\u0131m\u0131 yo\u011fumu sadaka olarak da\u011f\u0131tsam, bedenimi yak\u0131lmak \u00fczere teslim etsem, ama sevgim olmasa, bunun bana hi\u00e7bir yarar\u0131 olmaz.<\/em><\/p>\n Sevgi sab\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, sevgi \u015fefkatlidir. Sevgi k\u0131skanmaz, \u00f6v\u00fcnmez, b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmez. Sevgi kaba davranmaz, kendi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n\u0131 aramaz, kolay kolay \u00f6fkelenmez, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn hesab\u0131n\u0131 tutmaz. Sevgi haks\u0131zl\u0131\u011fa sevinmez, ger\u00e7ek olanla sevinir. Sevgi her \u015feye katlan\u0131r, her \u015feye inan\u0131r, her \u015feyi umut eder, her \u015feye dayan\u0131r.<\/em><\/p>\n Sevgi asla son bulmaz. Ama peygamberlikler ortadan kalkacak, diller sona erecek, bilgi ortadan kalkacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilgimiz de peygamberli\u011fimiz de s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. Ne var ki, yetkin olan geldi\u011finde s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 olan ortadan kalkacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocukken \u00e7ocuk gibi konu\u015fur, \u00e7ocuk gibi anlar, \u00e7ocuk gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrd\u00fcm. Yeti\u015fkin biri olunca \u00e7ocuk\u00e7a davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131m. \u015eimdi her \u015feyi aynadaki silik g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fc gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz, ama o zaman y\u00fcz y\u00fcze g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fece\u011fiz. \u015eimdi bilgim s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r, ama o zaman bilindi\u011fim gibi tam bilece\u011fim.<\/em><\/p>\n \u0130\u015fte kal\u0131c\u0131 olan \u00fc\u00e7 \u015fey vard\u0131r: \u0130man, umut, sevgi. Bunlar\u0131n en \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fc de sevgidir. (1. Korintliler 13: 1-13)<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n www.kutsalkitap.org<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Sevgililer Günü Neden Kutlanır? Sevgililer Günü her yıl tüm dünyada kutlanan popüler bir gündür. Her yıl sevgililer, eşler birbirlerine hediyeler alırlar. Jestler yaparak birbirlerine olan sevgilerini bir kez daha ifade ederler. Sevgi, aşk, sadakat, bağlılık gibi kavramları içerdiğinden evrensel bir gündür. 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