{"id":899,"date":"2023-01-12T14:07:42","date_gmt":"2023-01-12T14:07:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/?p=899"},"modified":"2023-01-12T14:07:42","modified_gmt":"2023-01-12T14:07:42","slug":"adige-abhazlarda-kadinin-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/christiancircassians.com\/tr\/adige-abhazlarda-kadinin-onemi\/","title":{"rendered":"AD\u0130GE-ABHAZLARDA KADININ \u00d6NEM\u0130"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0130\u00c7 B\u0130R\u0130N\u0130Z C\u0130NSEL \u0130L\u0130\u015eK\u0130DE BULUNMAK \u0130\u00c7\u0130N<\/strong> YAKIN AKRABASINA<\/strong> YAKLA\u015eMAYACAK<\/strong>.<\/span> RAB BEN\u0130M.<\/em>
\nKutsal Kitap \/ Levililer 18:6<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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KUTSAL K\u0130TAP:<\/em><\/strong> \u201cKad\u0131n erke\u011fin y\u00fcceli\u011fidir\u2026 Kald\u0131 ki, Rab ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda kad\u0131n erkekten, erkek de kad\u0131ndan ayr\u0131 s\u0131rada d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclemez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kad\u0131n erkekten olu\u015ftu\u011fu gibi, erkek de kad\u0131ndan do\u011far. Ama her \u015fey Tanr\u0131\u2019dan olu\u015fur.\u201d
\n(I Korintoslular 11:7,11,12).<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n


\n<\/em>AD\u0130GELERDE KADININ \u00d6NEM\u0130
\n<\/strong>
\nKad\u0131n ge\u00e7erken oturmakta olan erkeklerin t\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fcn aya\u011fa kalkmas\u0131 beklenir, buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k kad\u0131n\u0131n da gelmekte olan erke\u011fin yolunu keserek y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmemesi gerekir.<\/p>\n

Gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlarla delikanl\u0131lar aras\u0131nda yap\u0131lan sohbet toplant\u0131lar\u0131nda, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn e\u011flencelerinde, ka\u015fendik ili\u015fkilerinde, Xabze kurallar\u0131na uyulmas\u0131 ve hareketlerin Xabze kurallar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6ng\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bi\u00e7imde yap\u0131lmas\u0131 zorunludur.<\/p>\n

Bunlar aras\u0131nda oturu\u015f bi\u00e7imleri, s\u00f6z alma ve konu\u015fma durumlar\u0131, kimler nas\u0131l konu\u015facak ve konu\u015fmalar\u0131 y\u00f6netecek thamadenin se\u00e7imi ve thamadenin g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar\u0131 gibi konular\u0131n tamam\u0131, kural olarak Xabze kurallar\u0131nca bi\u00e7imlendirilmi\u015ftir. (Adigelerde Kad\u0131n-Erkek, B\u00fcy\u00fck-K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u0130li\u015fkileri, Rahmi Tuna, Adige Xabze \u2013 Adige Eti\u011fi ve Etiketi kitab\u0131ndan)<\/p>\n

KIZ ODASI (P\u015eA\u015eE VUNE)
\n<\/strong>
\n<\/strong>Adigelerin en \u00f6nemli ulusal geleneklerinin ba\u015f\u0131nda k\u0131z odas\u0131 gelmektedir. Kad\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcr ama korumal\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri h\u00fcr ama Xabze kurallar\u0131yla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131, sosyal ili\u015fkilerde etkin, ulusal d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve ya\u015fam tarz\u0131n\u0131 benimsemi\u015f, ulusal d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncenin olu\u015fmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flayabilen bir fert olarak yeti\u015fmesi i\u00e7in k\u0131z odas\u0131ndan daha etkili bir kurum olamaz. K\u0131z odas\u0131nda hem ki\u015finin hem de ulusun gelece\u011fi birlikte olu\u015fturuluyordu.<\/p>\n

Ailesi taraf\u0131ndan k\u0131z\u0131n olgunluk \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na geldi\u011fi kabul edildi\u011finde k\u0131z odas\u0131 olu\u015fturulur, oda k\u0131z karde\u015flerden en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ait olurdu.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z odas\u0131n\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7ileri erkeklerdi. Onlar ya\u015flar\u0131na ve ama\u00e7lar\u0131na g\u00f6re \u015fu \u015fekilde grupland\u0131r\u0131labilirler:<\/p>\n

\u2013 Kendilerine e\u015f aramakta olan gen\u00e7ler,<\/p>\n

\u2013 Evli, orta ya\u015fl\u0131, g\u00fczel konu\u015fma yetene\u011fi olan, \u00f6zg\u00fcr d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli, arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile birlikte sohbet edecek k\u0131z arayanlar,<\/p>\n

\u2013 Ya\u015fl\u0131, deneyimli, \u00e7ok g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f, \u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc art\u0131rmak isteyen, bu ama\u00e7la \u00fcn\u00fc duyulmu\u015f\u00a0 k\u0131z\u0131n odas\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret edenler.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcm bu guruplardaki erkeklerle sohbet edebilmesi, onlar\u0131n sorular\u0131n\u0131 gere\u011fi gibi cevaplayabilmesi gerekirdi.<\/p>\n

Akl\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi, hitabet ve g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcs\u00fcyle ziyaret\u00e7ilerinin ilgilerini \u00e7ekebilen k\u0131zlar\u0131n odas\u0131n\u0131 bir gurup terk ederken \u00f6b\u00fcr gurup ziyarete gelirdi.<\/p>\n

K\u0131z\u0131n ailesi k\u0131z odas\u0131n\u0131n ziyaret\u00e7ileri ile ilgilenmez, onlar\u0131 a\u011f\u0131rlamakla sorumlu olmazlard\u0131. Aile konuk evine -ha\u00e7e\u015f- gelenleri a\u011f\u0131rlamakla sorumluydu.<\/p>\n

(Adige Xabze, Vunoroko Mir, \u00c7eviri: \u0130brahim \u00c7etao, Psatl 3.say\u0131)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

HİÇ BİRİNİZ CİNSEL İLİŞKİDE BULUNMAK İÇİN YAKIN AKRABASINA YAKLAŞMAYACAK. RAB BENİM. Kutsal Kitap \/ Levililer 18:6   KUTSAL KİTAP: “Kadın erkeğin yüceliğidir… Kaldı ki, Rab bağlılığında kadın erkekten, erkek de kadından ayrı sırada düşünülemez. Çünkü kadın erkekten oluştuğu gibi, erkek de kadından doğar. Ama her şey Tanrı’dan oluşur.” (I Korintoslular 11:7,11,12). 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